LOVE DIGGER.

           Love, the four letter word of controversy all over the world with varying individualised meaning.
          The quest for love has turned us savage and reckless in our actions because it is one of our life priorities.
         Love to a person may mean having those who care about them, cherish them,trust them, provide their needs and are willing to sacrifice  their comfort and happiness for them.
        Love to a person may mean having someone who accepts them for who they are without discriminating their past life choices.
       We could go on to debate the various meaning of love and the argument would never end because it is a general essence of life yet comes at different cost for various individuals.
        To me, love is the transfer on inner desire to another person. It involves channelling your behaviour to another person based on how you strongly desire to be treated ,talked to and defended.
     These explains why some people may "love" another but the behaviour shown towards the "beloved" may be socially awkward but the lover in question believe he is doing a great task of caring sincerely for another.
       We need to learn to accept the diversity in which people show their affection and care except if it is destructive to our happiness,success and principles.
       If we are to endure and accept the diversity in the way people express love,this would mean we would have to learn to compromise sometimes to give people that euphoric feeling of being loved.
         Lots of social vices like fraud are now being hidden the facade of love. The insane drive for intimate satiety has turned people to a two faced monster who grants you all your ideas of "love" ,make you feel special whie slowly hacking into your emotional defences but once they have gotten satiety for their lust,they give you worst nightmare of being left lonely all thanks to their knowledge on the sincerity of your emotions.
         Simultaneously, love is being used as a tool of social development, when people have unsatisfied inner desires they may channel it into giving all they never had or experienced to the society which may be a good schools good water supply, a scholarship scheme and their satisfaction comes from the  appreciation they get for their service to the society which gives of importance and belonging  to the donor.
         We have to discover who we talk to or what we do that gives us a sense  of being important and cared for with a genuine feeling of joy.when we discover that love is better experienced than defined.
        Being desperate to experience love only leads you to the cave of the indestructible monster called DECEIT and the only way to avoid falling under its spell is acquiring the virtue of PATIENCE  instead of searching frantically for what you can't get.
        Love is just like karma , it would always come to you when you least expect it so do good deeds, be patient and true love will find you.

COLOUR COUNTS

            Whenever I get a free time to think about all the racism and terrorist attack that is going on everywhere around the world, I sometimes have a headache and an instant dampened mood.

            Everybody seems to be interested in the color of the next person beside them. We have set the color as part of the criteria of social acceptance and yet we all shout down racism whenever we get a chance.

            To choose a leader or a person of authority, we would first consider the origin of the person, we claim only a true indigene will do the job with the diligence we want but sometimes we may have another candidate who is very much ready to serve with all he has got and sees everyone as equal in opposition to the “people’s choice”.

             We have to learn to accept that the world is inter-dominated and ethnocentrism is only going to slow down our development. We depend on each other for resources,education,finances,religious satisfaction that diversify in different regions and parts of the world        no single person can survive on his own because everyone is born with different potential to contribute to the world .discrimination and envy has prevented world balance since potentials are inhibited from growing into substantial skill and productive impact in the society.

            We judge the next person to us based on what we have heard about a single member of their race or an err committed by their race forgetting that the power of time changes  things.

            We hide our weaknesses of not having solutions to the “issue” causing us pain by putting the blame on people of another tribe, race, color, religion since our ethnocentrism and pride makes us believe our race is perfect and should not be associated to delinquencies.

             When can we hope for peace since peace has even become a substance we started allocating race for.

            The moment we start seeing others as the same as us only then will things fall back into place and peace will reign, after all the ovum color and sperm color is the same whether you are white,brown,black,Arab,Jew and we all follow the same development pattern in the uterus.

             It is only when we are born we learn from experiences, misconceptions, schools, family, religious centres, media all the things we know .we need to realize that all our organs regardless of race & nationality have the same color anatomically and function the same way with similar amount of nerve function, the only part of us that may differ is the amount of melanocyte in us which determines how dark our skin is.

            We have to remind ourselves every time that the color of the skin is only an indicator of our diverse nationality and environmental factors.

            Be open, warm to everyone around you , treat people the way you want to be treated and only then are we going to appreciate our diverse gifts and potentials will be explored for our world peace and development as a whole.