URBAN UPGRADE.

                 That’s so classy!! That is so civilized!! Is all we recently started craving. The idea to be seen as urban and cool in our dressing, talking, principles has become an addiction we cant overcome. We shamelessly abandon all personal principles we have, just to impress people around us.
                 We wear clothes because everyone is wearing a similar one, but when we check deep within our subconscious level, we realize we don’t feel comfortable & confident in the cloth. We only wore the cloth just to get the same attention and appreciation those who wore the cloth attracted.
 When we fail to achieve the satiety we seek to get from the fashion and lifestyle we emulate, we are stimulated to do more and push the boundaries to create “our own style” which we may not necessarily find comfortable.
                  Following fashion trends can equally be fulfilling and be a factor in giving us the opportunity to explore other people’s preference in fashion and lifestyle principles.
             

REGRETS AND REGRESSION.

           When we find ourselves in unforgivable mood reminiscing our past actions and wishing we had engaged in some actions to avert the situation we find ourselves in. This deep thought which often fills us with sorrow is what we call regret and reaction to it varies ,as well as how far we allow it to affect our present /future actions also varies.
          We may claim we have no regrets in our lives or past decisions but is this really so? I think regret can only be felt when we acknowledge our failures, or unfulfilled desires and see the situation we find ourselves as irredeemable.
          Regrets most times slow down our success and motivation because the time we should spend on working towards achieving our aims, or constructing a better plan, we waste it wishing we had more control over the situation that cause us grief.

SINCERITY

      Sincerity is a virtue that is gradually being buried beneath the sands of time because we have continually ignored its importance and this ignorance is now back to hunt us. Some of us make up stories just to appear alluring to people around us. When we really look at the whole issue, we realize we feel hurt whenever we find out that someone was insincere with us or they want to take advantage of our sincerity and hurt our emotions.
     We easily “fool” others with our lies and “modified truth” yet demand truthfulness in return. The whole society has become a place where sincerity earns you no good but expose you to danger from those who seek to exploit what you have.
    Whether we would admit it or not, we still value sincerity and would strive to keep people with this virtue around us. As a result of defence mechanism against the cold reality of life, some of us choose not to say the truth always so that we can discover the true intention of the person we are associating with.