LOVE DIGGER.

           Love, the four letter word of controversy all over the world with varying individualised meaning.
          The quest for love has turned us savage and reckless in our actions because it is one of our life priorities.
         Love to a person may mean having those who care about them, cherish them,trust them, provide their needs and are willing to sacrifice  their comfort and happiness for them.
        Love to a person may mean having someone who accepts them for who they are without discriminating their past life choices.
       We could go on to debate the various meaning of love and the argument would never end because it is a general essence of life yet comes at different cost for various individuals.
        To me, love is the transfer on inner desire to another person. It involves channelling your behaviour to another person based on how you strongly desire to be treated ,talked to and defended.
     These explains why some people may "love" another but the behaviour shown towards the "beloved" may be socially awkward but the lover in question believe he is doing a great task of caring sincerely for another.
       We need to learn to accept the diversity in which people show their affection and care except if it is destructive to our happiness,success and principles.
       If we are to endure and accept the diversity in the way people express love,this would mean we would have to learn to compromise sometimes to give people that euphoric feeling of being loved.
         Lots of social vices like fraud are now being hidden the facade of love. The insane drive for intimate satiety has turned people to a two faced monster who grants you all your ideas of "love" ,make you feel special whie slowly hacking into your emotional defences but once they have gotten satiety for their lust,they give you worst nightmare of being left lonely all thanks to their knowledge on the sincerity of your emotions.
         Simultaneously, love is being used as a tool of social development, when people have unsatisfied inner desires they may channel it into giving all they never had or experienced to the society which may be a good schools good water supply, a scholarship scheme and their satisfaction comes from the  appreciation they get for their service to the society which gives of importance and belonging  to the donor.
         We have to discover who we talk to or what we do that gives us a sense  of being important and cared for with a genuine feeling of joy.when we discover that love is better experienced than defined.
        Being desperate to experience love only leads you to the cave of the indestructible monster called DECEIT and the only way to avoid falling under its spell is acquiring the virtue of PATIENCE  instead of searching frantically for what you can't get.
        Love is just like karma , it would always come to you when you least expect it so do good deeds, be patient and true love will find you.