FAMILY

                               

Everyone has an individualized meaning to the word “family” which may be from indoctrination, life experiences and societal circumstances a person finds himself.

People feel family should be your parents, siblings and blood related individuals but are we being sincere here? The answer is a big NO.

Those whom we truly see as our families are those who give us support we need whether physical, emotional, moral, financial, education type without criticizing us or making us feel bad about ourselves.

It is of wonder when family members refuse to associate deeply with each other after they gain independence and start up another family with a spouse. This also brings us to another question that do family preference of people change? The answer is subjective to individuals.

An individual may feel family don’t change because they can hold on to people and maintain ties no matter how far apart they are from a person and this may depend on how the family in question treats them and make them feel.

An individual may feel family changes if they are not the type to hold on to old ties or may be a victim of unhappy loose tie with a family member and may therefore shift attention of whom they consider as a part of their small societal unit.

 Facts still remain that no matter how indifferent we try y to be we have different families and are all connected to each other in one way or the other.  In short the whole population of human on this planet is one big family but the real family we may accept are those close to us or share the same goals as us.

With all these do we still think we need families or families change? Because family may stand for 100% ;F-6%,A-1%,M-13%,I-9%,L-12%,Y-25%,T-20%,I-9%,E-5%.

Which all results to 100% of our lives.

Seeing people as a family help make you a better person even if you don’t like them. The moment you start to clear an area of dirt to prevent people you see as family from falling ill you start contributing to world health and health for yourself.

Every action we take towards life affects us and people around us gradually so we have to decide whether family changes or should be limited to our nuclear family.

What does a family mean to you? You have to think deeply on this putting in mind that every individual’s action and attitude has an impact on the equilibrium of the society.