RIVER OF TEARS

           If I ask you to cry for me your next response will be “why?” or if I ask you if you ever wish to have a cause to cry your answer may be a non-hesitant NO which may be amusing to me because we cry every time with tears that may be shed out or held within ourselves.

          We see tears as a sign of weakness,an evidence of sorrow or tragedy yet when unexpected joy and success comes we cry without planning for it. Does that mean we are unhappy?

I see tears as T-tiny, E- Emotions,A- Accompanying,R- Results from decisions.

And this is because  it is awakened in deep situations involving us. When we succeed without expecting it we cry,when we lose hope we cry,when we survive a perceived bad omen we cry,when we get too happy we cry,when our plans are crushed we cry and the list goes on.

         
       Since tears come to us even when we fight it why don’t we accept it as “an essence of life” and not look down on it as “a sign of weakness” as we normally do.

Not everyone with a smile on their face is actually happy,some may be crying endlessly in their heart with no tears to show for it on their face so we all see the person as “strong” and the one who “lets it out” as a weakling.

                 To achieve balance,we should “let it go” sometimes because sometimes it is all we need and not the solitude we seek from external source because it is one of the rare moment we have connection to our soul and decision are made at this crucial period as the mind and soul are opened to different ideas both good and bad at this period and would depend on the individual to make the right one that would suit his/her situation.

                One of the reasons why we shouldn’t always make it a regular habit but still hold on think deeply about the source of the crying and its benefit to us because crying may be the relif we need to have a stable mind in a difficult situation, its because it is a very vulnerable period  of our lives so we have to learn to balance up our emotions,strength and weaknesses.

                It is high time we  learnt to control the circumstances that could bring us to tears to achieve fulfillment and sense of well being we need.