It is not uncommon for us to feel unsure of our thoughts,actions and decisions. We say things like " What if I am wrong? , I don't think I can do this, Am not sure I can do this, Don't want people to know am the one". These actions and thoughts has become our undoing as well as preventing us from utilising our potential to its peak.
Being sure and confident of one's self is very important since people want to associate with people and things that they can have a sense of guarantee that it is synthetic.
When we become too sure and confident about ourselves can be dangerous too. When we set up a high standard of accountability of ourselves but deliver substandard services, innovations & plan as we have portrayed, people lose interest in us.
Doubting our potentials and abilities is tho most lethal since people may doubt the quality of what we have to offer and some people may not even offer us the platform to share our views. We can't doubt the fact that we usually want the product & service that have a strong confidence about the quality of service.
Most self doubt spawn out from trying to ensure that we can offer the best that the world needs and the fact that we feel that most people are better than us. We momentarily forget that every individual is a unique being even though we may share similarities in body functions & Lifestyle.
Everyone has a distinct character and potential that they possess which helps us in identifying who we can socialise or work with.
Reaching an equilibrium between self doubt and assertiveness can only be achieved when we learn and accept we are all unique in characteristics, diverse in culture & ideas and would always have different approach and view about things. The world always ready for inventions, development and change
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