EBRIETY OF ISOLATION

   What does freedom mean to you? Is it getting a few hours to do things you always never had the time to do? Or having that solitude to meditate and strategize on how to get closer to achieving your ambitions.
     When we need to make an important decision or whenever we are seething with rage , we typically seek to be left alonewith no interference or attention from anyone.
     No one likes to be segregated away from people, we all crave a sense of belonging and love from those we value but sometimes being isolated is what we need to give us that "costly gift of time " to meditate about our past decisions, current decisions and future decisions to make.
      The feeling of loneliness evokes out unadulterated depths of our feelings and this could be dangerous if we haven't learnt how to channel our emotions into doing and choosing what is right.
      Whenever you feel that pang of loneliness, embrace all the emotions you feel, distinguish them, think about the aftermath of the decisions you will make if you succumb to the emotions you feel.
     People who like to isolate themselves from the society or people around them  are seen as formidable creatures of doom because no one can fully understand how they feel towards life concepts. There have been incidence of these isolated people commiting despicable acts of felony, murder, and other acts of social vices.
     All these can be traced to the fact that they have enough time to lallywag in the endless labyrinth of their emotions without people to guide them or lambaste any social vice they have started exhibiting.
     Isolation can equally be rewarding if we can analyse our actions, ideas and choices carefully without bias. We should use the solitude we get to strategize plans for steps we want to take,giving a target of when we desire to achieve results and success gained after this meditations usually gives a sense of satisfaction.
     As alluring as solitude may seem , we have to realise that sometimes we need human interference in our decisions and personal lives because sometimes there are people who have gone through the same phase of life we are currently tangled in and their strategy them with success  may give us that needed hint on the right decision to make.
     We need to learn to balance when to withdraw for evaluation of our actions, strategizing a new plan and when  to involve people in conversations and  experiences.
      If we gain this skill of emotional balance only then can we avoid being lost  in our self created labyrinth of emotional conflict called SOLITUDE.