WORD ANALYSIS

         The voice is a powerful tool of change and destruction of a nation. This should explain why we would depend on the media for updates.
     Every day we face the incidence of”you should not say this”, “you should not say that” because words have psychological power. We listen to what people say and whether we admit it or not, it affects our mood and thinking.

      A person who deals with obscene and harsh words everyday tends to be very defensive and sometimes aggressive in nature , because the words he hears breaks down his zeal & enthusiasm, crushes his self esteem and may make him feel irrelevant but the fight to show he is relevant leads to his aggressive and impulsive nature to prove himself.
      A person who is adored with words of kindness, encouragement and love may see life as an interesting field to explore and will unconsciously radiate kindness and warmth too.
      These claims made above can equally be refuted because the behavior and zeal of people vary and of course “individual differences” has a role to play in this .
       Everyone posses a true self that manifests when they are left alone with no one to judge or question their actions.
    Some may face all trivialities of life and still be a good person despite what has been said to them and about them because of their true vibrant personality they posses. On the other hand, we may have the person who hears the sweetest and soothing of all words becoming a miscreant and delinquent.
     The way we process things we hear varies on environment, cognitive, psychological and physical factors and this explain why there will always be conflicting views about various topics of life. Even when we have built our emotional defense, that we have become unperturbed by negative comments, we still usually brood on what we hear and analyse if they are true or not.
     The key to balance is knowing when to use gentle words of encouragement, kindness and praise as well as knowing when to truthfully criticize an act or situation. We should never be too forward in recognizing the good and evil of a situation or action.
      Always bear in mind that people will only say things to you based on the principles, values and belief they uphold and this should explain why you will hear different conflicting comment an action you engage in. it is now your responsibility to seek out the truth on whether you have done the right or wrong thing based on your values, beliefs, religious guidelines and societal guidelines.
      We should strongly become sincere in our utterances considering that emotional defenses vary, analyse situations thoroughly before making accusations, speak words of kindness because it may help a soul, criticize actions as politely as possible and remember that people would say things based on their level of understanding and experience.
      To promote societal equilibrium, before you talk or listen to anything, always remember that you are unique in thought and acts and it is important to choose your words carefully because it will have multiple interpretations which would rely on the “individual” that analyses and interprets them.