FORGIVE

       The ability to forgive people has become a virtue worth the finest of jewels and valuables because it has become a scarce trait to find in people.
     To forgive a person, you have to let go of all emotions of grief,anguish,anger a person has caused you by their actions. You have to be able to relate on the same emotional level you will relate with someone who has done you no harm or caused you no grief.
    When someone err us, we feel betrayed, hurt,unhappy and even indifferent depending on our relationship with the person and subconsciously the action causing this feeling marks a part of our soul like a "painful scar".
    Some people may patiently wait for an opportunity to get " even" and seek revenge against the person that hurt our emotions because we want them to feel the same way we felt when they hurt us but is it all worth it? Even when we get our revenge on this person does it eliminate the fact that we have been hurt? The answer is NO.
    While some people undergo the feeling of unhappiness,betrayal felt from the actions of the person who hurt us with no intention of payback and when we closely look at this we realise that we become emotionally stronger after our ordeal because we learn to control and channel our emotions better and become psychologically stable and happier since our emotions won't be in conflict on how to balanced from satiety in hurting another person.
     If everyone starts plotting on how to seek revenge against people that hurt us  we all will eventually become emotionally unstable which affects our overall  productivity since we may not put in our full concentration and efforts.
     If everyone learns to ignore the emotional trauma we get from actions of people around us, the world will become a happier place since there will be reduced incidence of conflicts caused by retaliations.
      If we should treat people the way we want to be treated, talked to and portrayed, things would gradually become better as there will be reduced incidence of sociocultural conflicts, wars and insurgencies we are experiencing.