MIND OF A FIGHTER

 
     Depending on our personality, when we get upset and angry, we seem to lose sense of reasoning. All our focus are drawn towards seeking atonement from our offender. We want to scream out how we feel about what we have experienced. We want to seek support of people around us by telling them about what we experienced.
     How far can our rage, discontentment, unhappiness and inferiority complex take us? Does it make us despise those that are linked to our emotional conflict? Do we let this dark emotion run loose in us till they control us and make us do despicable acts of physical violence, property and life damage?

    We have given our emotions power over us letting them affects our decision making and involvement. We don’t know when to suppress our hurt and think of positive things.
   When angry, unhappy and disappointed, we make decisions without stopping to make a quick mental note of its future effects on our lives and people’s lives/properties around.
     No one can truly understand you as much as you want them to and neither can you understand others in the same context they do themselves. People may provoke us because they might lack the knowledge that their acts or words offend us.
    Some of us take decisions at the peak of our emotional turmoil and when we are finally calm, the consequences of our decisions hunt us.
     Sometimes, our emotional conflicts help us because it makes us see our poor choices of association, decision making and planning.
    When we go through an emotional imbalance and can still make good decision at the height of this emotions, we become stronger psychologically and emotionally. This success in reining our emotion develops us and makes us stronger and more prepared.
     Sometimes, solitude is all we need; we don’t need to let out our frustrations and anger on the offender/offending agent. Silence can avoid many wars that started as a result of verbal and physical retaliations. Silence makes you hear and see the true intention of the opponent and gives you time to strategize a plan to avoid such discomforting situations.
     Other times, silence only makes the situation worse; we need to express how we feel about a person or situation so that changes can be made about it. But our expression of discomfort, anger, betrayal should be within acceptable social standard of physical and verbal confrontation that won’t include fabricated stories.
      Exaggerating situations, fabricating rumors just to spite those who hurt us will further destabilize the social equilibrium because it leads to division of the masses on whom to support.
       Extracting facts from the story while narrating just to make them appear less annoying than they are, will only stir up malice and revenge plot since we won’t entirely forgive and forget the situation.  
   Truthfulness and patience is required in conflicting situations no matter how much it would hurt our pride. Speaking the truth about how we feel, judging fairly and apologizing sincerely even when we are right is the only way we can achieve emotional satiety and justification.
          Before you let out words and make decisions during emotional conflict surge, take few seconds to analyse if your actions will be justified or destructive afterwards.